In Witnessing Grief: Inviting Trauma and Loss to Our Coaching Conversations, An Enneagram Perspective, Author Holly Margl presents an insightful exploration of grief, trauma, and loss, uniquely framed through the Enneagram lens. This book emerges not only as a practical guide for coaches and counselors but also as a reflective companion for anyone seeking to understand and support those grappling with grief. Witnessing Grief is both educational and empowering, offering an inviting approach to a topic often shrouded in discomfort and avoidance.

Divided into three distinct parts, the book embarks on a journey that is challenging yet hopeful. Part I, “Meeting Grief,” sets the foundation by examining the multifaceted nature of grief. Margl’s approach is reflective and raw, offering an authentic look into how grief weaves its way through the human experience. The author’s ability to articulate the complexities of grief is both heartfelt and instructive, allowing readers to find a genuine connection with the subject matter.

The second part, “Using the Enneagram,” delves into the Enneagram’s nine dominant biases. Here, Margl’s work shines with its unique and daring exploration of self-awareness. The chapters encourage readers to examine their own biases and perspectives. This introspective journey is critical in understanding how to create a safe and supportive space for those navigating loss. Margl’s presentation of the Enneagram is not just educational but deeply empowering.

In Part III, “Putting It in Action,” the book becomes a practical, application-oriented guide. It takes the foundational knowledge from the earlier sections and applies it to real-life scenarios. This part of the book is where Margl’s work becomes particularly potent for professionals in the field. The examples and scenarios provided are clear, pertinent, and deeply resonant, offering a roadmap for navigating the often-turbulent waters of grief and loss in a coaching or counseling context.

Margl’s book stands out for its approach to a topic that, as a society, we often shy away from. Her insightful exploration into the psychological underpinnings of grief is both educational and deeply touching. For those who have experienced loss, like myself, Margl’s descriptions of the feelings associated with grief are strikingly accurate and insightful. The book’s guidance on becoming a better listener and supporter for friends and family is invaluable, instilling a newfound confidence in dealing with loss.

Despite its specialized focus, Witnessing Grief maintains a remarkable balance that makes it accessible and beneficial even beyond its primary audience of coaches and counselors. While the book delves deeply into professional coaching techniques, these elements are presented in a way that lay readers can find enlightening. The practical applications and clear examples provided are not just tools for professionals but are also invaluable for anyone seeking to understand and support others in grief.

Witnessing Grief is a powerful, generous, and wise resource. Holly Margl’s guide offers a rare combination of practical advice and deep emotional insight. It encourages a shift from mere understanding to a more engaging, supportive, and courageous presence in the lives of those experiencing grief. Witnessing Grief is not just a tool for professionals but a beacon of hope and understanding for anyone touched by loss.